Well, self hosting email lasted a total of a day. I had massive spam issues, as in my emails being marked spam and I decided I didn't want to go down the rabbit hole of fighting it. So, I am back on Proton. I guess, when I am ready for it I will get the family plan on proton for the kids and wife. The kids aren't using email yet anyway. It does make me happy I will be continuing with SimpleLogin which is one of my favorite Proton suite features.
I know this was short but just wanted to be upfront about my reversal.